Showing posts with label Writer Update. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Writer Update. Show all posts

Monday, December 26, 2011

Unintentional Hiatus! =(

Hey Guys,
Just a quick update... we kinda rearranged the Hanukkah meals and even changed them a bit - I am still planning to get the videos up but as it stands I am working off of my old PC gaming laptop and thus don't have the program to make or edit my videos :( I know, it's very sad, right? I am hoping to have my macbook pro back by next Monday (01/02) and then will catch up with all the recipes. I am sorry for any inconvenience this may cause, I'm pretty bummed my logicboard decided to flip out and go kaput on me.

Anyway, have a great holiday and I will be blogging for you all in early 2012! <3


~Jess Miykal-Li

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Writer Update - Blog Idea

I am planning to condense all my recipes in to videos.... so you can just load the video and hit play. :) It will be a bit of time until I am to that point but it is in my mind. :)

Friday, December 9, 2011

Chrismakuh? I Think So!

So some of my readers (those that are closest to me and even those that have taken the time to read my introduction - which can be found here) are aware that my husband (to be) is Christian; his beliefs are centered around non-denominational beliefs, but overall he believes what the bible says (both old & new testament) and believes that Jesus Christ died on the cross for his sins. My beliefs are that of Modern Orthodox Jewish; I believe that the Messiah is not Jesus Christ, although I do acknowledge and believe that Jesus Christ is a Prophet.

Ethan and I don't tend to argue or even debate our religious beliefs. We love one another and understand that our religious beliefs and choices are our own. He doesn't think I am a sinner, nor does he believe I am going to hell. We both believe that when it is our time to go those that are most important to us are the ones that will be waiting on the "other side" for us, regardless of their beliefs on earth. Keeping with respecting one another's beliefs and religious choices we are often reminded of our religious differences, typically around holidays, and most frequently during the month of December.

Let me begin by saying that December is a very full month for us, and this year is absolutely no exception. Right out the door, on December 3rd we celebrate my life... we celebrate me being alive to enjoy all of God's greatness after an assault in 2006 which put me in the hospital multiple times over the course of that first year. I suffered a traumatic brain injury (TBI) which has brought with it a large and diverse list of challenges for not only myself but those who remain closest to me to overcome.

This year we have a court date on the 12th of December to see where the trial is at with my 2 year old nephew's murder.

Shortly after December 3rd we begin to plan for our Anniversary which falls on December 13th, and is usually just marked with a lovely annual (non-kosher) dinner at Red Lobster (for this dinner I don't eat shellfish or other trafe foods I simply tell myself from the beginning of the evening that the meal will not be kosher due to being prepared around trafe foods. Especially since I am unable to know if the trafe foods are prepared separately from the presumably kosher foods.) This is Ethan's favorite restaurant (from what I've gathered, as I tell him he can choose whatever and he always says he wants Red Lobster) so I have no issues breaking Kashrut once a year to give him what makes him happy. This year we chose to do a few extra things because it marks our 5th year together. We are going to go explore a  free museum on ASU's campus, then have a picnic lunch at the park and play on the swings, afterwards we are going to go to a Christmas event Ethan found at our favorite fishing supply store and have our photo taken with santa and maybe look at some fishing gear (we love to fish). We plan to end the evening with the Red Lobster dinner.

My birthday happens to be on December 16th and as such we usually go to breakfast at Denny's (and split the free grand slam), then out to a mid morning movie, followed by a lunch of some sort - this year we are going to come home and make homemade kosher pizzas & a birthday cake!

Also from Sunday through Thursday of that week (12/11 to 12/15) we have tech week for "Every Christmas Story Ever Told", which is a production we are working on as sound techies with Black Box theatre!

As if the week doesn't sound full enough, Friday the 16th is also opening night!

We have shows the 16th (7pm), 17th (7pm), 18th (2pm), 22nd (7pm), 23rd (7pm), 29th (7pm), 30th (7pm), 31st (2pm).

And here is where Chrismakuh comes in to play! This year Hanukkah falls on the 21st through the 28th so we decided that since Christmas is in the middle of that we'd celebrate them together.

We plan to say blessings, light candles, spend time away from the phones & computers, maybe watch some movies and play some cards, and of course enjoy made from scratch meals. We even took turns choosing yummy sounding foods and I found recipes to adapt in to kosher meals. Our menu consists of not so traditional Jewish foods however we both felt that the holiday posed an excellent time to attempt recipes that seem a little complicated and therefore not something we would typically attempt for a regular dinner; we also chose foods we don't always eat. The hope is that we find yummy meals for not only this blog, but for my own homemade cookbook that I am slowly putting together. It seems that the closer we come to starting a family the more my desire grows to make sure our children are raised in a kosher home, with home cooked meals, and true family traditions.

For those of you interested in our menu (and what you will be seeing recipes for come late December and early January) here it is:
12/20  Cashew Chicken & Banana Nut Bread
12/21  Salmon w/Avocado Sauce & Corn Bread
12/22  Potato Soup & Sour Dough Bread
12/23  Homemade Mac & Cheese & Fried Veggies
12/24  Cheeseburgers & Homemade Burger Buns
12/25  Turkey, Challah Stuffing, Mashed Potatoes, Cranberry Sauce, & White Bread
12/26  Cheese Lasagna & Corn on the Cob
12/27  Fish Tacos & Black Bean Cesar Salad
12/28  Undecided!

For New Years Eve we will probably choose our favorite meal from the menu above, cook that, and enjoy a bottle of wine. Before dinner we may go look at stars at the park or drive around and look at Christmas lights (something we both enjoy).

I wanted to write this update as a way of showing how we maintain respect for one another's beliefs during the month of December. As an interfaith couple we have found that simply embracing one another's religions and loving one another (unconditionally) is the only way to make our relationship work.

Thanks for reading!
~Miykal-Li



Saturday, December 3, 2011

Writer Update - 12/03/11

Hi fellow Kosher cooks :P
Just kidding... kind of.

Anyway, I wanted to let you know I hadn't forgotten about all the recipes from Thanksgiving 2011. In fact, I just got done uploading about half of the second batch of photos and setting them up in drafts. I am hoping (and planning) to release 1 recipe a day starting tomorrow until I am all caught up. Brace yourselves for kosher recipe over load!

I also updated the list to the left to only reflect recipes in which have blog posts (and thus, you can replicate at home!). I also added a second list below that to reflect dishes I have tried and that are coming soon to a blog post right here, on this blog!! And finally, I added a third list; this list contains recipes I plan to try and that will become available on this blog in the future! =)

So please, pull up a chair, grab a warm drink, bookmark this blog, and sit tight while I bring to you yummy kosher recipes. Skeptics and fanatics alike are all encouraged and invited to watch, read, learn, and challenge these blog posts! Thanks for reading, you keep me writing.


Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Writer Update - Turning Down Invites

I'm not sure if others have had this type of situation arise but I am the only observing religious jew in my family, chosen or otherwise, and therefore I find I feel kind of left out of situations.

I just had to decline the invite to go to my Brother & Dad's home tomorrow, for Thanksgiving, because I feel truly left out. I was informed a couple weeks ago that I'd have to cook my own turkey and bring it... because all they were making was ham, at first I was okay with this, but as Thanksgiving has drawn closer I have began feeling almost resentful.

I am cooking an entire meal from scratch today, and then I have to cook a turkey and 2 pies tomorrow, plus pack a couple helpings of the meal from today to take with me. Why, you ask? Because ethically, morally... even religiously, the thought of eating food that has been prepared around swine makes me physically ill. I don't know what their cleaning or cooking practices are, so while I know that I scrub everything 2 to 4 times before cooking something considered milk or meat, I don't know if they simply rinse it. I know I don't cook milk items at the same time I cook meat items, and that I never cook trafe items, again I don't know their practices.

I just messaged my brother, wishing them a happy thanksgiving, and saying I didn't want to have to cook an entire meal... which I don't. I know that no one has to embrace my choice to practice kashrut, and when I first thought of converting to Judaism I knew there would be challenges, I just never thought feeling unwelcome at holidays would be part of it. Honestly, who wants to go to a dinner of any sort, and watch people eating what is presumably delicious food, and have to warm up left overs instead of feasting with them?